The Parenting Paddywagon: Post-Cesarean Mom Fails to Bond
Woozy from pain medication after a Caesarean section, swinging from joy over her newborn boy to exhaustion from the strain of delivering him, Karen Piper mentioned to her doctor that she’d been hoping for a girl. She would come to regret those words.
There she was at Washington Hospital Center on an early spring afternoon, three days after giving birth. She’d be taking Luke home to the room she had lovingly prepared, to a time she’d dreamed about for years, just the two of them getting to know each other, reveling in the miracle of new life.
When nurses finally told Piper she was free to leave, no discharge papers for her son were brought out. Instead, she faced a parade of inquisitive official visitors, including uniformed police, a social worker, a psychiatrist, and assorted doctors and nurses. Her baby had been placed on medical hold while government investigators considered whether Piper was fit to take Luke home to Prince George’s County, the authorities said. She had failed to bond with her baby, a nurse told Piper.
Read the rest of Marc Fisher’s coverage of the discrimination against a post-surgical mother in this Washington Post article.
Hat tip to Barb from Navelgazing Midwife.